Nothing massively significant but she lingers a little longer when she drops S off, she constantly makes eye contact and has arranged for the 3 of us to go have a kick around with the football tomorrow - this will be the first activity the 3 of us have done together since BD.
Good! MWD actually mentions the lingering a little longer as a baby step to watch for. DB'ing is a long, long journey with progress measured by many tiny baby steps.
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She has lost an awful lot of weight (when she didn't need too) and just looks so very tired all of the time. She does however seem happy... Sometimes I think she DB better than I do!
Don't believe it. Inside she's confused and in turmoil. My W was the image of poise, serenity and happiness. It was 6 months post-BD before she admitted she was confused and had been the entire time since BD.
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she replied with "I was just pretending to be happy"
Question - is this more script from a WAW
Yup, straight from the handbook. The whole idea that someone even can pretend to be happy and actually pull it off is laughable.
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It really made me realise how much I miss family life - I wonder if it has the same effect on the WAS?
Probably, but she'll never in a million years admit it!
