Not confused...trying to move forward...

[BRNR]

So, I have been posting on other threads that my choice right now is to have barely any interactions with my H as he is with OW. I just can't be part of his life in any form or fashion with OW in the picture. This decision is really for me.

It really seems counter-intuitive, so I was thinking maybe I am on the right path. I just don't know what type of interactions I should be having or creating with my H, so I just leave him alone.

As such, I do feel that everything seems to be getting worse in my sitch. And I think we talked about this before. It just seems as we are growing further apart. Am I looking at this correctly?

Also, I think I need some advice on my communications that I do have with H, which aren't much except about money and kids. I have been keeping it short and sweet and matter of fact.

Am I doing the right thing? Can I improve on anything right now?

At this time, I really am doing nothing. And while nothing is helping me, it just doesn't seem to be helping my sitch with H.

Need some encouraging words or a whack with a 2x4 if you will...