My advice...but I am a newbie too, so take it for what it is worth....

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detaching and letting go
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starting a new life on my own.


You said it. I think it is the only way through...


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life