This weekend, we had a brief relationship discussion. My W said our relationship was good and wanted to know what I thought? I said it was good, but it needed to be better. I mean, the last time she said she didn't love me was only a few weeks ago.
Later in the day while shopping, my W said, "things are the way they were a few years ago, except now you know [that she doesn't love me] , but otherwise it is the same so you should be happy" My W has said that she hasn't loved me in a long time -- sometimes it seems like never in our 20 years of Marriage?
So my W seems to have committed to the Marriage in that she is not leaving, but she has committed to a M where she doesn't "love me".
I wonder how to respond to this. I accept that she isn't feeling those "loving feelings" right now because we are only 4 months since BD. Yet, I cannot accept a future with somebody who doesn't love me.
