Shiss...live today with me okay? Not tomorrow, just today
I maintain that paper does not have as much power as we do. While you may not be able to stop H from filing or serving, it does not stop you from DB or GAL or making your H see that he was a fool. It's a piece of paper, given weight by society and our own fears.
Pema Chodron has a lot to say on fear, you should read her stuff.
