Is it true of MLCers, that when they are feeling positive and confident they become more arrogant, rude, and push you away almost as if to say 'get out of my way, i can do this, i don't need you!'. However, when they are feeling unsure about something, concerned about something, or upset, they turn back to more like the person you fell in love with, and will talk to you with respect, and want your help and advice - until they remember and then they loop back and push you to one side again.
Yup, you got it...they won't ALWAYS do that though, sometimes they just stay rude, etc, and expect you do help them...the only thing you can expect is the un-expected, so put expectations away (this actually helps with a lot of life and people, like at work and all). You can only control your own reactions and actions in life...this was a primary lesson of my W's mlc for me to learn. It's a key to detachment and peace.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
