This aspect was so hard for me, I spend 60 hours a week at work controlling outcomes, and have for many years. Letting God, universe, who/whatever take over the sitch was an extremely difficult concept and way of operating for me to learn.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm