Thanks Mr. 2.4, whether or not your W is in MLC, the detaching, etc. is the same. The difference that I have observed is the total change in character, not just actions towards us, but in everything they do - clothes, habits, interactions with other people, strange things and ideas. I have found that it helps me to know whether my xSO was MLC or WAS because now that I am sure it is MLC, I know the timeline (LONG) and that some "techniques" may not be as effective because there is so much more going on in their heads than a WAS.
And thank you MizJ. I am taking care of me. I guess I feel a little deflated at the moment. It has been 12 days with only a single text (in answer to mine) which seems like a big nothing. Don't get me wrong, I think I need the big nothing right now but perhaps I have become a bit of an adrenaline junky and now I am jumpy at the silence.
