Journal, Anyway, there were a lot of pamphlets in the reception regarding seperation for men and they all have the clear message that "you need to come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over" Its hard to read this as I feel it contradicts a little with Db'ing although the main goals of Db'ing are to make positive changes to yourself.
As many posters here will you, the relationship you had IS over. The goal is to build a NEW relationship with your W.
