Absolutely Fig! Doesn't she realize that her only hope of getting me back (if there actually is one) is to show she can stand on her own two feet and take care of her sh!t. This stuff just reinforces why I ended it. I was very clear about that in the end. I layed it out for her directly but lovingly. The fact that she doesn't seem to get that my pain makes it difficult for me to help her with hers is disturbing. I know she's just trying to keep her head above water but c'mon sweetie, grab a brain!
