"but I'm really in a mode where I have my feelings towards her shut down externally." Guess I was thinking from this statement. Right or wrong if my wife said that to me, I would look her in the eyes and softly tell her that I miss/love her too.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy