Grizz, Sorry to hear this man. This really [censored]. Hang in there and continue to work on yourself. Y'all being apart and having separate residences might be exactly what this needs. Because I agree it wasn't that you were giving her distance either. Hang in there!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it