Quote:
I know 'the truth' will probably come out in the end but, in the meantime, I feel like I need to be seen to be 'doing the right thing' or else I just play into his game.


I guess it depends on who defines 'doing the right thing.'

If you're doing the right thing according to your values, and you feel good about it, why would it matter what others think? There are people who will always judge us, so do we constantly change what we do, who we are, to win their favor?

Or do we set our compass and travel forward, d@mn the torpedoes, full speed ahead?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss