I remember my H last summer asking me in detail about some things. I think salsa dancing was one of them. He asked me so many questions I thought he was gonna sign up with me! Then he got the glazed-over look in his eyes and I knew he had slipped back to netherworld.
They go through some weird stuff. But I feel, in my gut, like you are on the right track to get him asking about what you are doing. You want him to realize he is missing out. And he is. On so much!
He's just getting older and the boys are growing and he will be so sorry!
My H hasn't exactly expressed sorrow for time he has missed, but he is very often mentioning how little time he has left before S13 is fully grown or how he is changing so rapidly (as S19 is pretty much grown and at college, etc.).
Tvs, you can hold your head high today and every day. I'm so proud of your integrity and loving strength! rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
