Oh and about projected confidence,that isn't the same as actual confidence. Maybe you have tried to become what you think guys want that you lost your true self in there. So men are attracted to what they think you are,which may not be the real you.
Before you come back being defensive, think about what we are saying to you and see if you are feeling some truth there. You are asking us,you haven't given us much to go on except that you are broken and want a baby. We are really trying to help.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory