Physical touch is my H's LL and he has a couple secondary ones. During the height of replay if I were to express my love to him through LL then it's the same as pursuing, saying ILY. He seemed okay enough by the occasional expression to ME of physical touch. Only with him initiating. Otherwise it really turned him off.
H had always told me that's how he hears ILY -- through touch. So...until they are ready, I think we have to be so careful here....treading lightly.
Just my thoughts for today.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway