Sorry your here 2.4. I believe your w is relying on her feelings prior to taking the AD. If she isn't aware of what's causing the depression, and the mlcer isn't, they believe the spouse is the cause. So, now they take the AD and the baseline they work off of is that spouse is my problem.
As far as her pushing for D. Do the best job you can of dbing and let her do the work if she wants the D.
Thanks, I certainly feel that's what is going on. I know W had no intention of BDing me when I found out about EA. can't change the past but part of me thinks she may have started to feel better about things and it would have gone away if I had not have intercepted. Maybe not , maybe she would have met OM and I would just be none the wiser.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
