Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

I think the biggest thing for you to understand is, there is something very wrong with this guy. Your W is a married woman, yet he is "involved" with her.

OM also has a gf and they have been together for over a year. I don't think she has any idea any of this is going on. If he is being "unfaithful" to his current gf I don't see why my W would think it would be any different with her if they ended up together.

You want to become a man that only a fool would leave and this growth of yours will be positive in your life and any future R, whether your M is saved, or not.

I've started going to the gym and exercising more. I'm not terribly overweight but could stand to drop a few pounds. I played on my high school soccer team and I think I'm gonna look for a group around here to play with.

Also I couldn't find any e-book copies of DB or DR so I'm still waiting for them to come in. The only thing she's really told me is that she didn't realize I was showing my love for her so I found an e-book of the LL book and started reading last night. I'm about half way through it already. What do you think about asking W to take the profile quiz in the book?

I haven't been so angry today, and I'm taking that as a positive step. At this point I would still like to work things out if it's possible. tomorrow will be one week since she told me she didn't want to be married to me anymore. I've been doing my best to shut out the texting that's still going on and I've noticed my mood has improved a bit. I've done a lot of cleaning the past couple days and that helps take my mind off it.