The complaints she has are: That I do not listen to her, she feels I take her foregranted and that she is left to make all the decisions and be responsible.
She has decided to move out on 1 May and has a lease on a house nearby. She feels she cannot trust me on ultimatums about leaving and that if she stays and I change my mind and tell her to go she will have limited options.
She resents me because she considers I am in a stronger position on the house and financial situation. She has given me a price she would accept to buy her out, there is no doubt I could buy for a lower price but it would damage our relationship.
She says affair is over but will not commit to NC, I therefore think she is lying. I have seen some MLC signs but I think this is a WAS sitch, she has been unhappy for a long time, longer than she admits and cannot see it turning around. I think I need some help with implementing LRT. I have not tried to pursue but what I am doing is not working so I need to change my approach.
If she moves I feel I should tie the legal side down in regards the children and a shared residence, this feels like closing the door. As does agreeing a price on the house and buying it. Problem is if do not she might see it as not letting go.
I could do with some help
Me 44 WAS 41 T 11 S 8 D 5 DB November 2012 EA and PA discovered December 2012 WAS moved out 4 May 2013 Share residence of S and D 50/50 WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.
