Maybe women/men that already have children shouldn't judge, unless they can remember what's it's like to not have their own baby or a man/woman to love.
True... although...
I have one adopted and one biological and I WOULD have another, if I could... well, if I had a willing partner...
I'm wondering if you are clear on what you want and I understand your "clock" is ticking.
There is artificial insemination and there is also adoption options...
Or is it really...
That you want to have a willing boyfriend and then husband as soon as possible so that the two of you can have a biological child?
Tall order and lots of pressure on you...
Which... under such pressure... you may be coming across as... desperate?
If you really want to have a biological child, I would recommend that you look at many options.