I really think you should give your wife as much space as you can.

Check out the book by Laura Munson this is not the season you think it is. Its the opposite gender roles but I think it relates to your story.

Hang in there, give her room to figure it out on her own

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13