Back off the saddle again.

[kat727]

I think she wants to have you help her because she doesn't know how to help herself. She has a lot of work to do in that regard. The issue I see you having is stepping in and helping too much. You are a great guy and there is a great gal out there for you. You didn't find Voldermort right off and it will take some time to find her but have fun in the mean time.

Big hugs, kat