Still struggling after all this time

[kat727]

You attract who you are. Maybe you were dating to feel better but really you weren't ready. I think not being with anyone until you feel good being alone is the way to go.

I don't know how old you are or how long you were married for. The healing time varies and those numbers can make a big difference. I believe it is natural to want to rush out of the pain. There will be memories that will take you off guard, pictures that will break your heart, those things are ok. You will get to where those thing don't hurt. Everything that you have been through is making you into a better person. So be gad when you can face the past.

I didn't save my marriage but I saved myself and my kids. They are ready for me to date and well, I am too.

Kat