Pretty sure its near the end!

[jaytee35]

Well, I had a backslide today and decided to contact my wife after 27 days of absolutely no contact. We spoke via email. It started by me just asking how she was doing and inviting her to coffee. She refused my invitation and responded with extreme bitterness over what I am asking for financially in the divorce proceedings. She believes that I was only in the relationship for financial gain. I tried to explain to her that I am just protecting myself through the proceedings and I am not interested in financial gain but rather interested in fixing our marriage. I made it clear that our marriage is more important than any financials will ever be.

She then responded with telling me that she does not want any contact with me what so ever and if I continue to contact her then she will be forced to take further action.

I do not understand why she is so bitter still. I have decided to close the case and sign the divorce papers with no intent of financial gain. It will be uncontested at this point. I am absolutely drained emotionally and believe at this point it is better to just "let her go" and prove to her by this that all I ever wanted was to work on our marriage. Not gain anything financially.

If anyone has any thoughts on this it would be appreciated. Is it better just to sign off and "let her go" at this point???


Love my wife dearly but my emotions have run dry....I do not feel it is healthy for me to go on like this. I guess if it is meant to be, god will bring her back in my life