Thanks, Mr2.4. And like the vets also say, it really is for your own benfit to focus on you. Because that's the only person you can control. It takes time, but you do indeed get there for yourself sooner or later.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13