We are coming up on 8 months in our sitch - H and I are still spending lots of time together - mostly weekends. And when I'm not visiting him, he calls me every day. We are still living in separate residences, however we have discussed living together again, maybe even this summer.
BUT he's still not ready to say that we're dating or even that we're working on our M. Confusing, I know! I'm taking it a day at a time and riding the merry-go-round - which is better than a roller-coaster!
We are still seeing our MC, who is good but not great. I see it more as a dedicated hour each month where we can talk about our sitch, more than him providing any real guidance.
After our most recent discussion about moving back in together, he reminded me that he's still not sure he can believe what I say. He asked me, for close to the 100th time, "why?" And he still asks if I am sure about us and if I'm really in love with him...
I should probably ask that we stop talking about moving in together until he feels ready to say we're a couple, but at the same time it's so nice to be talking about the future instead of the past! Is that crazy??
