There is such a script to MLC. The worst part about it is that the end (you know the bit we are most interested in) is the only truly unpredictable part. ... The sad thing for us is that the script only takes us so far. The two questions that I would like to ask my crystal ball is how much longer and is he going to be anything like the person I once knew?
Hey Portia, You are so right!
I hold to the belief that if this is all SO scripted, there has to be an end to the process as well... writing it out makes it sound less logical, however.
And I know I shouldn't, but I keep looking for signs/patterns that might signal the beginning of the end.
Like, 18months -2 years after BD seems to be a time-frame that's common to several changes of heart.
Or, the mlc-er getting way worse all of a sudden; i.e. dropping further down the tunnel before bouncing up to out (or nearly out).
