I have been reading through your sitch. Sounds like you are doing okay with the ocassional backslides. I dont know exactly how its all going, but I find that the times I have backslid and I think back to myself and say " i should have taken michelle's advice and DONE NOTHING" Sometimes doing nothing is the best thing to do...take some time and think it through rather than act.
It does sound like W is on edge, but how you work through this will be your challenge. I think being able to walk away but maintain all your love and respect for the other person is the key. Dont walk away in anger...thats the wrong way to do it.
Also, it totally spins me out when i read about couples who are " seperated" but living in the same house and ML. How does that work? I would walk the earth just to sleep next to my W....To quote the amazing Jeff Buckley "all my riches for her smiles when i slept so soft against her"
I know it doesnt seem like its the best scenario, just be grateful that you get to be with the woman you love. Good luck and keep posting.
Me - 37 W - 37 M -5 T - 15
S=5 S=3
Seperated - 12/12 BD - 20/03/13 Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.
