rH.... I am taking the time to read your threads. You posted:

//Its so strange. Sounds so MLC to me. He feels like we co-partner, co-parent, co-homeowners, etc. really well. He just doesn't wanna be my H. Feels like I'm a sister to him. He says he feels about me like he always has, still deeply loves me. Just has to be on his own right now.//

This is exactly how I am feeling these days... I know he cares for me & D... but does he want to be more like a brother. Really?

How did you get passed this feeling? UGH.. I feel h is borderline MLC the more I read your sitch. Guess I will keep reading.. TX

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)