Of Feral Cats, and All That

[reachingHigher]

This:

Other than that, garden, kids, pets, taxes and just life...it is good, just wish I had W fully back for that finishing touch addition to it.

And this:

In other news, it's now official. I'm in limerence... with me! Yep, and we all know these things only last (on average) for about 2 years, so hopefully W signs back up to the M before then.

Seriously, I do believe being content/happy with ourselves and our life is key to dealing with the rejection of our MLC'er. Do what you need to do to make this happen y'all!

Made a big impression on me. I've been thinking more about myself, more about who I am and it makes a better balance.

Thanks guys!

T^2, I look forward to all your posts, on all the threads. You definitely have a gift for analyzing, condensing, and encouraging. I really appreciate it.

in other news...W was engaging me this morning, eye contact, even thanked me for taking out the garbage (!!???, this is new)...I a pretty sure AOS is a main LL for her, can't wait to to do the tests together some day to verify.

Eye contact....such a simple thing.....can be so special, especially after it was purposely taken away. This is encouraging.

And yes, I can't wait till you can do the LL tests!!
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I think you keeping track of the days since PA or EA is like me keeping track of the days till H moves back in. It gives some definitive shape to our limbo. Which is nice.

We just have to keep growing, learning, and loving
rH