Time to roll up the sleeves

[mrtwopointfour]

In DR, there is a paragraph that pretty much says when some S's make up their mind it will take a miracle for it to change. I think my sitch is covered by that paragraph.

I really do not know which way to turn. It seems no matter how I handle things W is finding ways to become more cold, rude and cruel. She has pretty much told me her family is out of reach for me now - I won't see them again, she is buying things for her new house (this is amazing considering we are a long way from moving into seperate houses), and she is all round a horrible person to be near.

I am on the verge of giving up - mainly because I can't be treated this way any more. And also because I only see the sitch deteriorating.