It's 90 days today since claimed last contact with PA "man friend", 71 since end of "significant" online EA friend (I do wonder sometimes if they weren't one and the same, but that isn't important, I will find out someday I am sure).
I keep track so that when I feel anxious/impatient, I have that reality check against how long it takes for recovery from OP (6 months or so usually from what I've read)...keeps me based in reality and on my chosen MO/path...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm