UW--Just, thank you SO much for those words...made my weekend...
FY--She was seeing an IC back before BD for a lot of these issues. The IC taught her EFT, and she has been using that on her own and via coaches for a year or so now when she started getting bits of clarity, seems to be working, though W does hang onto things and feelings pretty stubbornly, so it's a battle for her...and it IS her battle.
I use WOA and compliments very judiciously right now...I feel she needs (due to upbringing) non-judgemental validation and acceptance of her, her feelings and struggles more right now...though I do sneak them in when I feel the timing is right and there is an opening in her thoughts for them...
in other news...W was engaging me this morning, eye contact, even thanked me for taking out the garbage (!!???, this is new)...I a pretty sure AOS is a main LL for her, can't wait to to do the tests together some day to verify...lol.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
