Is this MLC? I called him back, clearer reception. Explained to him that I was reacting because he is doing a 180 of his usual self on Sundays. I said I was not judging or mad and then validated that I understood he needs "down time", etc. And that I am glad to hear how he is able to "sleep" at his buddy's place.. just validating. Again I hear how he is worried about health and now more so of dying. He feels life is short. He is lonely and bored at home. Life has become very monotonous and feels that Sunday morning's he should be able to shut down. Hanging out with his buddy, is good, he enjoys his company as he is funny.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)