Hi Mr2.4, welcome to MLC. There is such a script to MLC. The worst part about it is that the end (you know the bit we are most interested in) is the only truly unpredictable part. TVS is correct in that the A is a symptom of MLC. But from my own experience, the MLCer rarely risks dropping the bomb until their A is on more solid ground. That was what happened in my case. XSO was on the prowl and when he finally found someone, he then dropped the bomb on me.

TVS thank you for stopping by. As a newbie I was still processing the script. In that same article Pittman says that when he wrote his book he assumed that once people knew how destructive affairs were, they would surely stop. But people did not stop. Like smokers who risk their health, they do it anyway. The sad thing for us is that the script only takes us so far. The two questions that I would like to ask my crystal ball is how much longer and is he going to be anything like the person I once knew?