No offense taken Barb. I just wanted to point out that I'm nowhere near dating anyone again. I can't imagine in a million years that she is! It certainly could be a manipulative tactic on her part to get my attention (that I could see) or she's striking out at me (I'm leaning less towards that one. She's not a mean or vindictive person) or her gf has told her to start chatting with other guys to get her mind off me (that one I can see too). Either way, she's making a very bad mistake. The POF shark pool is no place for a vulnerable lady. But, her healing is her business and mine is mine. Btw, I've not looked again to see if she's there and will not. I hurt enough as is!
