I second TVS and Snodderly. They ask what's wrong like children caught with their hands in the cookie jar by mom just before dinner: what???? They know their actions bother us.
So, maybe the 180 for you right now is to walk away and not say anything. Go into another room, give him the finger and count until your head does not explode. If you are a bit blood thirsty like me maybe picture the painful removal of his thumbs? These days with all the texting that would be more painful than the Bobbit version of revenge.
