No Barb, I have absolutely no designs on anyone...not a chance! My friend I've known for over 20 years and we've never seen each other in any other way besides friends. We've always supported each other through hard times. The other lady who emailed me is just a very caring (and married) lady who is trying to give me a smile when I need it. We've also known each other a few years. As for SDA Lady, I was not into her faith, I was fascinated by it and supported her in following it, I just expected her to support me in my journey as well...and she didn't do it. She had no issues with me not being an Adventist, she just wanted a Christian. She didn't like when my attention was being drawn somewhere besides her. Not good.