That quote from Pittman is so true. I guess on one level it helps to know there is sort of a science to it all, a internal driving force that has absolutely nothing to do with us.
What makes me really sad is that if seems like the lost person has to lose everything to face reality. But once they've lost these things, there is no guarantee they will ever get them back. After all the hurtful damage is done, who is to say we would want them back?
Miz J - I think you are right on when telling your H that he's not gonna be your friend. My H doesn't realize he's losing me as a wife and a friend. A friend would not treat us as poorly as they have treated us.
Mrt- your wife may actually be right about the bomb drop. See, the A does not cause the MLC - it is the other way around. And they usually do deny the A, saying they're just friends. All part of the script.
Hope you all are having a good Sunday
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
