Yes I think we are. My W is the same. She is just letting me get on, I think it's a test to see how true it is, or whether I give up. Thing is, I actually enjoy doing these things now. Before I would sit and think, I've been at work all day I would help out but W has it in hand, but at the same time feel like I was letting W down. Now I feel like I am one up!
I have decided my wife is in the tricky stage of MLC, not that this makes any difference. But just the personality change, the need to be like get friends etc, change in beliefs - it all just adds up. If you go through the check list of MLC my W has a tick next to every point!
I really don't know what's in store for us, but lets just get on with life and hope for the best!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
