After my crying sobbing meltdown yesterday when WAH said he was only moving a couple of things to the new house he rented, he didn't come home last night (He said he wasn't moving out until next month). He texted me about 5 min before he got here to say he was coming to get more stuff. I heard my dogs barking because he was trying to get in the locked door (he has no deadbolt keys).
I was still in bed (early AM).
I went dark last night after I saw the reaction my meltdown caused. How should I handle his access to randomly coming & going? I have no clue. Please help.


Me 54 H 53
T 19
M 15 (2nd both), 0 kids, 2 dogs, 1 horse
H open heart surg12-12-12
H dropped bomb 3-5-13
H moved to lounge ~3-13-13
H rented house w/friend 4-6-13
H moved out 4-13-13