So, just as an update....for the last several days, I've basically gone dark. That is essentially a drop from a call a day to no calls. Texts and emails were already out so no change there. I've done this because after several calls, W would follow up with a "BTW" text asking for divorce papers. I didn't feel like that was a positive response (for me). So, no calls, no more urgings for D (since about 5 days ago). I doubt I can delay much longer but it would be a good experiment to see how long this will go without any more inquiries about the D.
GAL plans all worked out...no hiking but dove two tanks Sat and two tanks Sunday and had a couple of good meals out with friends.
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2d Marriage-BD 22 Jan 13 M 46 W 39-Married 6 months/together 3 yrs Seperated by military (both on AD) No Kids Together--W-D1(12), D2(10): Me-D1(14) Divorced 24 Apr 13