"Wondering why u unfriended me. Don't want to be friends? If that's so. Ok.
And. I guess we r not friends. Sorta [censored] to me. I mean. I like u a lot. And I know we both have regrets. Different ones though. I truly believe u will be happier and better off without me as ur wife. But I wish we could be friends. If not, ok."
Any advice would be appreciated. I unfriended her last time she checked in with her boyfriend. Mostly because I don't want to see that stuff more than to send a message. Now what?