Not confused...trying to move forward...

[BRNR]

Cadet, I am one of those people who has a photographic memory...I remember everything. Even now, unfortunately.

I am glad we learn so much on MLC from others and our own research. Hopefully it prevents any of us having to go through it, although I suspect it probably doesn't work out that way.

I once read a comment on this board that stuck to my core a little...it was something like "when standing, we are not just waiting for our h/w to come out of this, but we are also putting in work , maybe that is much needed, into our marriages...whether that marriage is with our MLCers or a future spouse." I really feel this to be so true. After all, how do we know that if we got into another relationship, with another person, that this couldn't happen again. I would rather put the work into something that I know was good, and have it completely fail, but not by my hand. So, while I don't have hopes of saving my marriage to date, I do know that I want to put in the work, to better myself for my future one, to whomever that should be with. So here is to hoping that everyone here sees at least one saved and has a hand in saving them.