Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

I've been feeling angry for the past day or two and feeling like I want to tell her to go. I think it might just be a phase and I'm gonna give it some more time before I act. I keep thinking of things I want to say to her that would probably not be the best things to say. I've been able to control myself so far. I'm not sure if she can tell I'm mad, if she can she hasn't made any indications that she has. I've been trying to do things to get my mind off of it but it's tough. Like I said in an earlier post I'm a student and don't have too much money but I want to try and get enough together for one of the books recommended on this site. What would you recommend I read first?