Is the point of GAL to show W both that you are not needy, that you are getting on with life AND so that you don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself and thinking too much a out things?
I would say the point of GAL is to:
1. build self-esteem 2. get on with your life so that you are not so needy 3. show WAS that you can get by without them 4. show WAS that you are interesting and somebody they should want to be with 5. Occupy your time so that you don't just think about your broken M
