After phone coaching session #2

[azguy]

Hi reb. The impact of our D on my S is something that has really torn me up as well. At times I blame my XW, but then I don't think the D was only her fault. We each contributed. If I look at it that way I tend to blame my XW less. She walked away, but I contributed to that. So the impact on my S is my responsibility as well. I don't know if this applies to your situation.