It is all subjective anyway. I was called stocky in HS. 6’1” 180ish tackle on the football team, wrestled at 165. Maintaining my weight to stay in that wrestling weight class was brutal and unhealthy. My X varied from an unhealthy size 8 to 14 and was never happy with herself.
Lets take stock. You do enjoy dancing and running right? These are both healthy GAL activities right? Dancers and runners generally have healthy musculature on their legs and taken together the muscles of the upper leg are some of the largest on the human body. Healthy musculature is important to overall health.
What matters is what you think of yourself. Are you happy with your appearance? Do you think you are healthy? I hope so.
People have times when they are less pleasant to be around and we all have choices. People will show their true self eventually. Have you known her long enough to have seen enough? It is a question I ask myself.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
