Struggling and need help

[mrtwopointfour]

Wow CB! You posted on my thread a few days back about your sitch being like mine. Yep! I have just read through yours and it most certainly is. You have had some great advice so I am taking this on board myself. In fact from what I have just read I am now 100% certain my W is in MLC. Maybe its time for me to stop posting in Newcomers and stick to this part of the forum.

I also know about EA, I snooped and found messages between W and OM on a social network site (via PM) which then caused BD. I suspect a w/e away where W could have met OM, it could have been first time PA, maybe not, W claims not to have met OM or wanting to pursue at this time. Not sure what to believe. But I have decided to stop asking, I decided when W returned from w/e away, when I know she had not told the truth about where she went, I would not say anything. It was really hard, but I am very glad I did not. At the time I was 100% certain she was with OM. Now I am only 50% sure. If I had confronted W about what I suspected and I was wrong, I am pretty sure we would be in a lot worse sitch right now.

I will get my thread up to date and keep reading yours. Good luck!