Tori and subguy, this site is intended to be a private forum for those of us who are all here, working through some very personal times in our marital life.

So for that reason, it is strongly advised that certain information that might detail our real identity, not be posted here.

There was a time though, that the forum was not quite so closed or private. When people from this forum shared personal information and met up in real life, using familiar social networking tools which I'm sure you guys are familiar with.

Outside of this forum, we are all free to interact with whomever we wish. Except when it may put other members here at risk.

Hope that makes sense. smile